Handing your child their first phone can feel like a milestone and a minefield all at once. On one hand, it’s freedom, connection, and a way to keep them safe. On the other, it opens the door to endless screen time, online risks, and worries you never had growing up. Every parent wants the same thing – for their child to be safe, happy, and balanced. That’s why we’ve pulled together the latest advice for 2025, so you can make confident choices without the stress.
1. Built-in Safety Tools Are Smarter Than Ever
Most phones now come with parental dashboards as standard. Apple’s Screen Time 2025 update and Google’s Family Link Plus both allow you to set app-by-app limits, approve downloads, and monitor usage in real time. These are far more intuitive than older versions – and can be synced directly with your own device for instant updates.
2. Messaging Apps Parents Need to Know
3. Screen Time & Sleep
Blue-light filters and “bedtime modes” are now default settings. Experts recommend all children have devices docked outside the bedroom overnight, and most parental apps can lock phones automatically after a set time.
4. Social Media Awareness
Platforms such as Instagram and TikTok now send “time to take a break” prompts when scrolling exceeds healthy limits. Encourage your child to recognise these nudges as positive reminders, not punishments. Pair this with honest conversations about what they’re seeing online.
5. Online Safety Musts
Phones aren’t going anywhere. The goal isn’t to ban them, but to help children build healthy digital habits. That means balancing screen time with real-life play, friendships, and activities that give them confidence and joy.
At Premier Education, we see every day how much happier kids are when they’ve had a chance to move, laugh, and spend time with friends in person. Less scrolling. More real-life victory dances.
It’s important to set boundaries and limits with your kids. Talk to them about the boundaries themselves, and your reasons for setting them.
These boundaries could include screen time limits, restrictions on what apps they can use or where they can use their phone.
By setting these limits, you can encourage children to still enjoy activities that stimulate their minds in other ways, such as sports, board games or reading. It also allows you to reclaim family time and ensure your child isn’t using age-inappropriate apps.
Parental controls allow you to see exactly what sites and apps your child is accessing on their smartphone, tablet or computer. It also lets you see how long they are spending on these devices.
While there are many parental control apps to choose from, the standard choice is Google Family Link. Free to use, Google Family Link works with both Apple and Android devices.
While you still may want to use a parental control app to check what your child is doing online, it’s always good to engage with them directly as well. By encouraging them to share what they are doing on their phone, you may get a better insight into risks such as cyberbullying or their social network use.
By teaching your child a few security measures now, you will help them keep their devices secure in the long run. Examples include:
In our modern-day, more than half of all 7-year-olds have their own mobile phone. However, every child is different and it will often depend on why you are considering giving them a phone.
If you’re unsure whether your child is ready, here are some questions you may want to ask yourself:
While social media networks have age requirements, typically above 13 years, they rely on the person signing up to be honest about their age. The problem is, there is no age verification system in place.
Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter and Reddit require users to be at least 13 years old.
WhatsApp and Tumblr users in the European Economic Area (including the European Union) must be at least 16 years old. Outside of that, users must be 13 or older.
If your child is older than 13, then it may be worth setting up their account with them so you can be sure they don’t lie about their age.
While mobile phones are generally safe, they do pose a few health risks to children. As well as eye strain, a phone can carry germs from wherever your child uses it, including the classroom, bathrooms and public transport. To help prevent the spread of germs, you can regularly sanitise your child’s phone with alcohol wipes.
Continual use of a mobile phone can also cause neck strains, especially if the phone is held at chest height. To prevent neck strain, your child should take a break from their phone every 20 minutes and try to maintain good posture while they are using their phone.
Activating parental controls on your child’s phone will help keep your child safe online. As well as Google Family Link, most Apple and Android phones will have an in-built option that you can set up.
Beyond parental control on your child’s mobile phone, you can also add parental controls to your home wifi. Apps such as WiFi Blocker lets you set controls based on time and device.
Depending on the age of your child, online safety will be an important factor in choosing a phone. Especially for younger children, the safest choice of phone may be one with limited capability and simple controls.
One example is the Jitterbug Flip. While it allows children to text, make calls and take photos, it doesn’t connect to the internet. We’ve not tested it here at Premier Education, but we’d love to hear from any of you who have!
If you’re looking to purchase an iPhone for your child, we’d suggest that the iPhone SE is a great choice. It’s the cheapest in Apple’s range, and the iOS operating system will continue to be updated for several more years.
If you’ve any other recommendations, or you’ve come across other useful mobile phone safety tips and tricks, please feel free to share with us on social media.
If you’re looking for a stress-free way to keep children entertained and away from their screens. Our Holiday Clubs are the perfect solution. Packed with games, sports, and creative activities, they’re designed to help kids make friends, build confidence, and come home tired, happy, and full of stories.